Which came first, the baby or the pet?
In a lot of cases, the pet came first and the baby joins the family later. However, that doesn’t mean it has to be an either/or proposition.
Plan ahead as you prepare to welcome baby into your family.
Set boundaries with your cat and the baby’s room immediately. Keep the door closed, or firmly remove the cat whenever he enters. Make sure the nursery is deep-cleaned to remove pet hair or dander, especially if it was a room your cat used to frequent. Do not let your cat sleep on the baby’s bouncy chair, crib, rocking chair or anything else that will be exclusively the baby’s.
Take your cat to the vet to make sure he is up-to-date on all of his shots before the baby arrives.
Keep the cat’s nails trimmed.
If the cat is accustomed to being held, get him used to sitting next to you instead of on your lap.
Do not tolerate any aggression toward the baby, and monitor them closely until you know how your cat will react to his new family member.