This morning (Saturday), I woke up with a to-do list a mile long. Make that a mile and a half.
I wanted to get the grocery shopping done early. I had laundry backed up all week. There are at least four problem areas in my house that have stuff piled so high that someone might call “Hoarders” on me for an intervention if I don’t get them sorted out soon. The bathrooms weren’t cleaned this week. There was yard work that needed to be done if the homeowner’s association wasn’t going to be paying me a visit, and my list didn’t even include the daily things that just need to be done.
I drove my older son to work and came home ready to tackle the tasks at hand.
“What are we going to do today?” my younger son asked.
I started to list off the things I was going to get done today.
“Okay,” he said, quietly.
“Why?” I asked him. “What did you want to do today?”
“Oh, I don’t know,” he said, noncommittally.
I went toward the shower, determined to get through my list.
Then, I stopped. I’d worked all week. He’d been cooped up in the house all week. I knew that he was itching to get out and do something. I knew he wasn’t asking me to do anything extravagant or expensive. I knew that he just wanted a few minutes of my time. Actually, with his brother at work, it was a golden opportunity.
I will admit that I hesitated for a moment. Oh, that list!
I went back to the living room.
“Do you want to go to the park?
Walks with Mom are his love language. Ever since he was a toddler, it was our thing to do together, even if we only made it 50 feet down the driveway and collecting rocks, which he’d hand me like treasures, all the while clutching one in his chubby little baby hand.
His freckled face exploded into sunshine.
We went to the park. We walked on the trails for about an hour. We both came home with enough happiness to fuel the entire weekend.
I didn’t make it through my whole to-do list today, but that’s fine. It will all still be there tomorrow, but the chances to take walks with my teenage son are a precious commodity. I’ll always put those on the top of my to-do list.