Shopping with a baby is easier than shopping with a toddler—and it's also harder.

Babies are more dependent and less mobile, but they're not able to listen to explanations and watch distractions, either.  The main issues you'll be facing concern feeding and changing.

The key to success is the diaper bag. Never leave home without a well-packed bag, and don't even consider Christmas shopping without one!  This means packing the diaper bag with the usual stuff: diapers, wipes, sunscreen, blanket and other appropriate items.  A few toys or favorite books are good ideas in case the lines are long. Also, remember a hand sanitizer or something similar for when you or your child need a hand washing but can't find a place to do it.

When it comes to diaper change time, predicting a baby's diaper need is just about impossible.

Assume the baby will execute the loudest, smelliest, messiest bodily function imaginable the moment you enter the checkout line. Chances are, it WILL happen sometime, so you might as well be prepared.

Always put a fresh diaper on the baby before leaving the house. If there's no changing table where you're shopping, you might have to find a low-traffic spot on the floor. Sometimes you might have to resort to changing at the most convenient location available – this could be on the floor away from the crowd or outside on the lawn. Be flexible, but be prepared: carry a changing pad with you.

To avoid hunger meltdowns, feed the baby before you leave. Bring a bottle with room temperature water, or dress so that breastfeeding is discreet and comfortable.  If you're using powdered formula and there's clean water where you're going, then you can put powder in bottles without the water, which eliminates potential spoilage. If the baby is receiving breast milk, bring a small cooler pack to keep the milk fresh if you'd rather feed on the run.

This sounds like a lot to manage, and if this is your first baby, it may feel overwhelming. Some parents choose to use the buddy system of two adults per child. Others prefer to shop without children present. And others just adopt an attitude of "this too shall pass" and take notes so they'll have an amusing story to tell to friends!

Published 11/21/08