I’m not sure how many of you have loved ones in nursing homes, but each time I go, it reminds me of the importance of not forgetting these special people. They are the ones who have been a part of our lives for so many years and helped us through our own life journeys. We must remember that even though someone is caring for them daily, we have a responsibility to be there for them.
My stepmother has Alzheimer’s and is in the stage where she does not remember my name and a lot of days has no idea what is happening around her. Even with this, I visit at least twice a week and take her a banana milkshake (bananas are her favorite!), which she sips until the entire cup is empty. To see her smile when she sees me coming makes the visit worthwhile. Even though she does not “know me,” I am familiar and she remembers, I believe. This is a small gesture on my part, but I know she loves the sweet taste and that it brings her joy. Adding an ounce of happiness for her, at this stage in life, brings me even greater joy.
We try to instill in our girls that even though our loved ones look different, act different and may not recognize us at times, they are a part of who we are and we WILL continue to love and care for them until the end. We are blessed to come in contact with so many others each time we visit, and I pray we are making an impact in their lives, also. There are so many people that are placed in homes and forgotten. It makes my heart ache. Colossians 3:12
Gratitude, patience, compassion, faithfulness….they don’t ask for much, only that we hold their hand, stroke their hair and be there. It may only be a banana milkshake, but it is so much more, for both of us. May this be a reminder to us all, lest we not forget those who have loved us for so long. Count your blessings daily, and give thanks for the time and opportunity you are given to be with them.