When you think about friends and family, some people may consider them separate, but to many of us, our friends are part of our family. We all have people in our lives who are more than just a friend; they are sometimes even closer to us than some of our own family. When you find that special friendship, it is something that you cherish and hold tight too.
As years pass, we find ourselves in situations we thought we would never see ourselves in and face things that seem impossible. It may be something with a spouse, a child, our health, church, work or life in general. It is during these times that we rely on our friends to pick us up, dust us off and help us put one foot in front of the other and make some sense out of what has happened. If you stop and think, for just a moment, you can remember a time when one of your friends did this exact thing for you. Think now…have you done that same thing for them? It is great to have a friend, but even more so to be that special friend to someone else.
A friend is someone who helps you move forward when you think it is not possible, gives you a hug, a shoulder to cry on, listens when you talk, believes in you when others don’t, and someone that no matter what, is there to support you in any situation. Most importantly, a friend is someone who will pray for you daily, pray with you when you need it and gives thanks for you and what you mean to them. We are blessed with extraordinary friendships during our lifetime and it is up to us, not to take them, for granted. Having a special friend(s) is a true gift from God.
Focus on your friends and family. It is time well spent and most rewarding. Count your blessings daily and give thanks for the time you are given with them.